10 Romantic Flowers That Aren’t Roses

Flowers have always been symbolic. In ancient times, flowers were seen as symbols of beauty, purity, and love. Each flower has its own message that it carries from the giver to the receiver, depending on the type and color of the flower. While we don’t know when exactly the first flower was ever gifted, archaeological evidence like prehistoric grave sites, paintings, and fossils all suggest that the practice of flower giving is an ancient one. The Greeks even had a goddess of flowers called Chloris, who was associated with spring, flowers and new growth. It was believed that the goddess Aphrodite created the first rose as a symbol of her love for the god of war, Ares.

Ever since, flowers have long symbolized love and affection due to their beauty, delicacy, and fleeting nature. Often linked to purity, innocence, and new beginnings, they also convey specific emotions—yellow flowers for friendship and white flowers for purity or sympathy.

When it comes to romance, though, red roses are the first thing to come to mind. And yes, red roses are a beautiful symbol of love and passion. But there are many other flowers that can be representations of love that you can gift your partner this Valentine’s Day or on any other occasion. These ten romantic flowers are perfect alternatives.

1. Orchids

Orchids are renowned for their beauty. They symbolize love, beauty, refinement, many children, thoughtfulness, and mature charm. They are also known to be able to live longer than your average flower. This is the kind of flower you give someone you’ve been through a lot with to show them deep admiration and that after all these years together, you still carry a lot of passion in your heart for them.

2. Tulips

Apart from peonies, tulips are almost always the second choice for romantic gestures right after roses. While red tulips represent perfect and deep love, pink tulips signify affection and care. Therefore, choose your tulips depending on the message you’re trying to convey.

3. Peonies

Peonies have become increasingly popular for brides in the last couple of years and are probably the most recognizable flower at this point. Traditionally, these flowers are given on special occasions to express goodwill, best wishes, and joy, but now they’re more associated with love, romance, and happiness.

4. Gardenias

If your lover is a soft, gentle soul, please get them gardenias. These flowers smell amazing and they symbolize purity, refinement, innocence, harmony, and gentleness. A bouquet of gardenias accompanied by other flowers like pink peonies or purple bellflowers for a touch of color would look beautiful. It will surely make your partner extremely happy.

5. Lavender

Lavender is not only known for its calming scent but also for its symbolism of love, devotion, and serenity. You can go for a bouquet of lavender if you want, but I wouldn’t recommend it. Instead, incorporate lavender into your less fragrant bouquets to give them that irresistible scent and pop of color.

6. Hydrangeas

The symbolism of hydrangeas differs depending on who you ask. In Japan, they represent heartfelt emotion and gratitude, while in certain Western cultures, they can signify vanity or boastfulness due to the large blooms. Regardless, those voluminous flowers are boasting something. You can use them to boast and show off your love and affection.

7. Lisianthus

With delicate, ruffled petals, lisianthus flowers symbolize appreciation, charisma, and deep admiration. Their soft, romantic appearance makes them a lovely option for expressing love, loyalty, and devotion.

8. Freesias

Freesias are loved for their sweet scent. They symbolize trust and friendship. Gifting a bouquet of freesias can beautifully express your sincerity and affectionate feelings toward someone special. Freesias are a perfect option if you feel you have ended up with your best friend.

9. Violets

The scent of violets is so seductive that in ancient Greece, the violet was an emblematic flower of Aphrodite and her son, Priapus, the deity of gardens and fertility. These flowers have long been associated with loyalty, faithfulness, and deep love.

10. Primroses

Primroses symbolize young love and eternal devotion. If your love is new yet filled with passion and deep affection, get your partner a bouquet of primrose that represents this love perfectly. Their simple yet beautiful blossoms send a heartfelt message of deep love and unwavering commitment, making them a meaningful gift.

While roses remain a classic symbol of love, these romantic flowers offer unique beauty and deep symbolism. Therefore, next time you want to impress your significant other, surprise them with one of these romantic flowers when they might have been expecting roses. BUT if they had expressed that their favorite flower is a rose, then just go for that.